The Dating Advice For Hipster
Why Having A Guy Friend Is Difficult
Women Dating Younger Men: The New “Norm”
Dating Coast to Coast: Which State Is The Friskiest?
Four Steps to a Perfect First Date
Do’s and Don’ts of Bar Dating
I imagine that a less experienced partner is very important to some men, a turn-off to other men and a complete non-issue to still other men.
Imagine. Read: I don’t know what the fuck I am talking about but need to ensure that the female lurkers dont concern themselves with how men really feel from whatever they want to do with their bodies [with men]…and other bullshit feminists marching order crap
112Wayfinder October 9, 2011 at 10:58 am
@ozymandias
I am… unconvinced of the negative evidence for sluthood qua sluthood. (Obviously, if you do not enjoy casual sex, YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE CASUAL SEX.)
I’m reading this to mean that you believe that “sluthood” is not intrinsically damaging, and only the extrinsic factors should be considered. In reply I’d point out that multiple studies (including this one) demonstrate that many women are having casual sex not because they want to or enjoy it but because they think that is the only way for them to get sex or sexual attention.
The main objection (beyond “women don’t enjoy sluthood”) appears to be that many men do not want to marry promiscuous women; while the Hooking Up Smart regulars don’t want to marry sluts, you guys are also the definition of a non-representative sample, in much the same way that reading a website called CatsAreAwesome .com will give you an imbalanced idea of how many people love cats. I imagine that a less experienced partner is very important to some men, a turn-off to other men and a complete non-issue to still other men.
Nevertheless, if a woman is interested primarily in long-term relationships wit men from a subculture known for its disdain for sluts (manosphere people, evangelicals, dudebros, etc.), she should definitely consider whether she wants to have casual sex.
One aspect of the argument you’re missing here is that the majority of the single men their own age have very low numbers. If we’re taking as granted that a man’s willingness to accept past casual sex in his future wife is correlated with the difference between their respective numbers, then many women are racking up their numbers without realizing how much it will hurt them when it comes time to settle down with someone more stable.
Why Having A Guy Friend Is Difficult
Women Dating Younger Men: The New “Norm”
Dating Coast to Coast: Which State Is The Friskiest?
Four Steps to a Perfect First Date
Do’s and Don’ts of Bar Dating
I imagine that a less experienced partner is very important to some men, a turn-off to other men and a complete non-issue to still other men.
Imagine. Read: I don’t know what the fuck I am talking about but need to ensure that the female lurkers dont concern themselves with how men really feel from whatever they want to do with their bodies [with men]…and other bullshit feminists marching order crap
112Wayfinder October 9, 2011 at 10:58 am
@ozymandias
I am… unconvinced of the negative evidence for sluthood qua sluthood. (Obviously, if you do not enjoy casual sex, YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE CASUAL SEX.)
I’m reading this to mean that you believe that “sluthood” is not intrinsically damaging, and only the extrinsic factors should be considered. In reply I’d point out that multiple studies (including this one) demonstrate that many women are having casual sex not because they want to or enjoy it but because they think that is the only way for them to get sex or sexual attention.
The main objection (beyond “women don’t enjoy sluthood”) appears to be that many men do not want to marry promiscuous women; while the Hooking Up Smart regulars don’t want to marry sluts, you guys are also the definition of a non-representative sample, in much the same way that reading a website called CatsAreAwesome .com will give you an imbalanced idea of how many people love cats. I imagine that a less experienced partner is very important to some men, a turn-off to other men and a complete non-issue to still other men.
Nevertheless, if a woman is interested primarily in long-term relationships wit men from a subculture known for its disdain for sluts (manosphere people, evangelicals, dudebros, etc.), she should definitely consider whether she wants to have casual sex.
One aspect of the argument you’re missing here is that the majority of the single men their own age have very low numbers. If we’re taking as granted that a man’s willingness to accept past casual sex in his future wife is correlated with the difference between their respective numbers, then many women are racking up their numbers without realizing how much it will hurt them when it comes time to settle down with someone more stable.