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tom says:
December 20, 2010 at 3:04 pm
Maybe she grew tired of the single life and the lonely nights. Maybe she has buried the hreatbreak that drove her to not want a relationship, and live a single life. Maybe she no longer travels with her job 5 days a week and is ready for a relationship and or family. There are a lot of reasons why a womans pryorities might change….LOL All I get from you insecue boys is the EWWW factor. Dont worry boys a woman falls for you first, and your dick comes after that, not the other way around.

No one, and I mean one one here has stated EXACTLY what is wrong with a woman who is experienced.They say men wouldnt want her I ask why not? All I hear are reasons an insecure man might state. Why is experience a bad thing. I doubt anyone here can give factual answer without jealously or insecurity showing thru.

tom says:
December 20, 2010 at 3:18 pm
Susan , No I`m not trying to convince anyone to do anything. I am trying to get them to see that their bias is seeded in insecurity. Since no one can explain what exactly is wrong with an experienced woman, it must be in their own head.
Kind of like a person who has never eaten lobster before. They have no idea, really if they will like it, but just the “thought” of eating it repels them.They surmise they just are not into sea food. Is that REALLY an answer?…. Well she has just had too many lovers..And why is that a valid answer? “she has to much experience? she can compare? What about experience is bad… Even you Susan, cant answer that question.
As for disease.. A wife can get it EASIER from her cheating hubby than a protected woman can get it from a one night stand. I never had a disease. My Fiance has never either, None of my friends, as far as I know, has ever had a disease either. Some people DO protect themselves EVERY time.

tom says:
December 20, 2010 at 3:36 pm
And Susan I dont know why other guys seem to think men like me are nuts for accepting an experienced woman. Are they not trying to get me to see their point of view? That is all I am doing. As long as a woman is clean, and disease free I have no problem, under certian circumstances, considering that an experienced woman could make a great life partner. But then again I am secure in my thoughts. I could care less that she may have encountered another man/men who was a good lover. I`m smart enough to know there are other men out there who know their way around a womans body. Now if that thought is too much for the average guy to handle, so be it. their loss. I am not saying all promiscuous women will make a good LTR prospect, just like not all women in general will make a good LTR. I can tell you right now, I know of a few experienced women who would make a lot better prospect than some limited experienced women I know.
Some people are afraid of rollercoasters. Is it the rollercoaster that is at fault, or the thought process of the person who is afraid?
If there is nothing wrong with two concenting adults having sex, what makes it wrong if that has taken place 30 times? Is she dirty? is she damaged? is she deranged? If the answer to those questions are no, then there is NOTHING wrong with the woman, only the thought process of the one who judges her.