Intimacy and romance
Norton Loveawake
Sexless Marriage
Evolution and the Friend Zone
4 Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage and Reduce Risk of Divorce
Consent, control, connection
Is this really consensual?
What is the secret recipe?
Giving my best to my man who put his foot down
Men taking responsibility

Wish me luck and ladies, check your inboxes :p!

Maybe it’s Neil Strauss’ captivating writing (or the fact that blaming anyone else but myself feels better), but many times, I have felt the pressure to escalate and make a move based on proving to myself what is possible. Sometimes it works but sometimes, it doesn’t. Accepting this was more difficult than it seemed. A part of me kept believing that there must be a way to everything. While there might be, now I realise that there is also always an alternative.

What am I talking about here?

I am talking about the concept of quick-escalation. It is something that is frequently talked about in The Game and a lot of seduction communities. Pulling off stuff like One-Night-Stands, quick phone-numbers, making out in minutes etc. Accomplishing this successfully gives one a huge ego boost and a nice surge of confidence.

I have been there way too many times. I tried to push and plow through my escalation with disregard for the logistics. Sometimes, I do so just to satisfy my own egotistical expectations. The more I focused on it, the more success elluded me. Then I started to just let things progress naturally and just be PREPARED for things to happen. I spent more time ironing out my logistics and focusing on my life. All that effective preparation gave me a sense of assuredness that raised my confidence to a point where I just felt that, “It’s gonna happen, let’s have some fun and make her think it might not :p”

And all of a sudden, I see myself achieving far more than I was before. Less investment but more returns!

Respect the logistics