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Could micromanagement work for you, too?

A readers' forum post by Grace on Fri, 24/06/2005 - 23:23 | reply to this comment
Do you give off an Aura?
A readers' forum post by a Taken In Hand reader on Sat, 25/06/2005 - 01:08 | reply to this comment
Grace, I think it's hard to tell. I do think these two guys may be into spanking and said that in jest to you.

I've only received a spanking threat once, from an eye doctor who wanted me to hold still for that awful glaucoma test where they have to touch your eyeball with some instrument. I get extremely nervous even though I know it doesn't hurt and it takes a bunch of retakes before they can complete the test. Anyhow when the doctor threatened to spank me I told him it would be preferable to that glaucoma test!

You may give off a "brat" aura that inspires these remarks.


A readers' forum post by a Taken In Hand reader on Sat, 25/06/2005 - 01:08 | reply to this comment
A readers' forum post by cj on Sat, 25/06/2005 - 02:03 | reply to this comment
Almost anything is preferably to that glaucoma test. I'm 27, I don't have glaucoma, and going five years between eye exams doesn't cause it, despite what the eye doctor may think.

As to how I'd feel if he wanted to change the relationship, I'm not sure. I think I could accept it, but I would be dissappointed. I'm not a very sexual person, but I find dominance to be very sexy. It's one of the few things that I do find sexy. I think it would make it difficult for me to be as sexually attracted to my boyfriend as I am if this were to change, but I love him so much, I'd find a way. Like I said I'm not a very sexual person anyway, so I could probably manage, though I'd probably find it harder to meet his needs if this were the case. It's hard to make someone else feel sexy if you're not at least a little turned on yourself.