jacob Says:
January 17th, 2012 at 3:40 pm
Best bit of advice i found on the internet :)
You two break up–doesn’t matter who does it. You immediately panic and begin chasing, begging, pleading, harrassing, phoning, e-mailing, IMing, stalking (okay not all of them, just pick whichever one you did). Most of us will likely do some things during this stage that will make you cringe when you think back on it, say after about 3 months.
You lose weight. You neglect yourself, your house, your job (how many hours do we all log on this site while we are at work?). You drive your friends and family crazy talking about the break up. You cry at the drop of a dime. You can’t even comprehend that your life might not again include that “special person.” You begin putting them on a pedestal, forgetting all of the nagging things about them that used to drive you crazy. In your mind, they have become omnipotent, all encompasing, all everything.
You convince yourself that you are a loser who just screwed up a relationship with “the best person in the world.” You KNOW without a doubt that you will never EVER love like that again. You know no one else will come along who even comes close to being as marvelous as your ex (excuse me while I chuckle to myself here). You wear a sad face for the world to see (you should see my work ID taken 2 days after my breakup, it’s just pitiful).
They (the ex’s) remain steadfast in their denial to get back together. Many of them leapfrog into new relationships, immediately being exclusive with a new person. For those that do leapfrog, they appear to just “replace” you with a new model. All of the things you two used to do, they now do with someone else. Bowling, cuddling watching television, motorcycle riding, antiquing. Whatever you two did, likely they will just begin doing those things with someone new.
You hear about them and their new life. You are desperate for any crumbs of news about their life. Many of us make things worse here by trying to use manipulation to get them back–yet they stay away from us like we are the plague.
For those of us who do still have contact with our ex’s we begin selling ourselves short. Doing stupid things like allowing them access to our bodies and then wanting to strangle them afterward when they remind us that “Sex does not imply hope.”
You, in further panic mode, begin frantically searching the internet using phrases such as “break ups,” “divorce stopper,” whatever. You stumble upon this site, pay your money because your curious and lo and behold, you find all of us folks in various stages of this whole breakup bullsh*t.
http://paste.purplehat.org/view/4d9dc343
https://chris.teria.org/pastebin/view/bee07b2d
https://paste.gxis.eu/view/82466b13
https://paste.tecnocratica.net/view/ae30f229
https://paste.intergen.online/view/4eb4cbf9
http://yatespost.com/view/af46f56f
https://paste.lightcast.com/view/99d09c73
http://minetest.wjake.com/stikked/view/e0151e37
https://paste.netzgemeinde.eu/view/34073137
https://pasted.cf/view/a0a29f62
https://paste.selea.se/view/737485b9
https://paste.gajim.org/view/9e929bd0
https://paste.godclan.hu/view/6db7571d
https://mlx.su/paste/view/520eb3ac
https://pastebin.freepbx.org/view/145242de
https://p.rhcp011235.rocks/view/bf25b375
https://bitbin.it/XSnyxZbU/
https://paste.jremi.com/index.php/view/fc1f2c00
https://p.xi.ht/view/7bd945ef
https://paste.paivola.fi/?e585be2585000792#2Nu2XwmwyM9o4XYXHYJqSVeCR2wom9utj4XqGL8yU9V3
https://paste.nyigc.net/view/f3c32b40
January 17th, 2012 at 3:40 pm
Best bit of advice i found on the internet :)
You two break up–doesn’t matter who does it. You immediately panic and begin chasing, begging, pleading, harrassing, phoning, e-mailing, IMing, stalking (okay not all of them, just pick whichever one you did). Most of us will likely do some things during this stage that will make you cringe when you think back on it, say after about 3 months.
You lose weight. You neglect yourself, your house, your job (how many hours do we all log on this site while we are at work?). You drive your friends and family crazy talking about the break up. You cry at the drop of a dime. You can’t even comprehend that your life might not again include that “special person.” You begin putting them on a pedestal, forgetting all of the nagging things about them that used to drive you crazy. In your mind, they have become omnipotent, all encompasing, all everything.
You convince yourself that you are a loser who just screwed up a relationship with “the best person in the world.” You KNOW without a doubt that you will never EVER love like that again. You know no one else will come along who even comes close to being as marvelous as your ex (excuse me while I chuckle to myself here). You wear a sad face for the world to see (you should see my work ID taken 2 days after my breakup, it’s just pitiful).
They (the ex’s) remain steadfast in their denial to get back together. Many of them leapfrog into new relationships, immediately being exclusive with a new person. For those that do leapfrog, they appear to just “replace” you with a new model. All of the things you two used to do, they now do with someone else. Bowling, cuddling watching television, motorcycle riding, antiquing. Whatever you two did, likely they will just begin doing those things with someone new.
You hear about them and their new life. You are desperate for any crumbs of news about their life. Many of us make things worse here by trying to use manipulation to get them back–yet they stay away from us like we are the plague.
For those of us who do still have contact with our ex’s we begin selling ourselves short. Doing stupid things like allowing them access to our bodies and then wanting to strangle them afterward when they remind us that “Sex does not imply hope.”
You, in further panic mode, begin frantically searching the internet using phrases such as “break ups,” “divorce stopper,” whatever. You stumble upon this site, pay your money because your curious and lo and behold, you find all of us folks in various stages of this whole breakup bullsh*t.
http://paste.purplehat.org/view/4d9dc343
https://chris.teria.org/pastebin/view/bee07b2d
https://paste.gxis.eu/view/82466b13
https://paste.tecnocratica.net/view/ae30f229
https://paste.intergen.online/view/4eb4cbf9
http://yatespost.com/view/af46f56f
https://paste.lightcast.com/view/99d09c73
http://minetest.wjake.com/stikked/view/e0151e37
https://paste.netzgemeinde.eu/view/34073137
https://pasted.cf/view/a0a29f62
https://paste.selea.se/view/737485b9
https://paste.gajim.org/view/9e929bd0
https://paste.godclan.hu/view/6db7571d
https://mlx.su/paste/view/520eb3ac
https://pastebin.freepbx.org/view/145242de
https://p.rhcp011235.rocks/view/bf25b375
https://bitbin.it/XSnyxZbU/
https://paste.jremi.com/index.php/view/fc1f2c00
https://p.xi.ht/view/7bd945ef
https://paste.paivola.fi/?e585be2585000792#2Nu2XwmwyM9o4XYXHYJqSVeCR2wom9utj4XqGL8yU9V3
https://paste.nyigc.net/view/f3c32b40